A couple of tips to get this party started:
- Make sure you have lube, it will create a better slip allowing you to move without hurting her.
- Use a pillow to prop her up, it gives you a better view and easier access.
- Don’t go straight for the vagina! Play with her first, touch her, kiss her and then go for the V.
- Try a special breathing technique. While performing these vaginal massage techniques Have your lover breath in deeply and out deeply as steady as she can. While breathing in she should squeeze her pelvic muscles, while breathing out she should release them. The breathing is a game changer, and takes a wonderful orgasm and multiplies it by 10.
1. Keep Her Panties On
There are various vaginal massage techniques you can use, but teasing her first are going to make all of them more successful. Try rubbing her vagina in a circular motion while she is still wearing her underwear. Doing this allows you to apply a little bit more pressure and get a sense of how sensitive she is. Using your 3 fingers (pointer to ring) massage in a large circular motion, then taking your fingers one at a time trying a sweeping motion to tantalize her.
2. Light as a Feather
This technique requires that you lift her “hood” or better yet, her lips to expose her clitoris. With one hand lift her hood, with the other (after applying lube) take one finger and as light as possible (while making sure she can feel it) stroke her clitoris. Stroke at the same pressure for as long as you can. This is an orgasm meditation practice, and will tease her until she cannot take anymore.
3. Push it Real Good
Using the same hood exposing technique, instead of lightly rubbing, apply light pressure and using your pointer finger make small circular motions. Go clock wise and then counter clock wise. Go faster and then go slower. This vaginal massage technique will take some communication with your partner, you have to apply the pressure that feels good to her. Try and get the very tip of her clitoris, before the actual opening for the best results.
4. Go from the C to the A (Clitoris to the Ass)
This position is going to work best when she is laying on all fours, doggie style with her legs slightly spread apart. This works for a number of reasons.
1. It’s a different position so it offers another level of sensation.
2. The sensation of touching all of her, compared to just focusing on her clit, gives her an earth shaking orgasm
Take two fingers (your middle and your ring) and run your hands from her clitoris all the way to her anus, then glide back in the same direction. Start light and as she becomes more aroused move faster with more pressure. If she likes it you can dip your finger in her anus as you glide back, and then (another finger no double dipping!) take your other finger into her vagina. Try various speeds and pressures.
5. The G-Spot
The G-spot is actually pretty easy to find. It’s the bumpy circular feeling inside her vagina facing her stomach. You have to make sure your partner likes her G-spot stimulated, some women love it others don’t. Taking your index finger, enter her vagina and using a “come here” motion massage the G-spot. Try different motions and pressures to see what she likes best. This will take more time to get her to orgasm but if you are lucky it will be one that is far more powerful than a clitoral orgasm.
6. Double Whammy
Using the same technique with the G-spot, use your other hand to massage her clitoris. Take your index finger and middle finger and rub up and down, while simultaneously massaging her G-spot. If you can’t do both at the same time, just apply pressure to her G-Spot while moving your two fingers on her clitoris.